Thursday, October 17, 2019

So why am I making this blog??

I want to encourage other girls, and single women. I have really struggled with being single, feeling unwanted and alone. But I am at a point in my life where I am becoming more content with where God has me right now.

I refuse to run from relationship to relationship just to be with someone. I am single. My happiness, my worth doesn't come from being in a relationship. Sure I would love to find a wonderful, godly man to marry one day, but if that should never happen, I am content and even happy with my life just the way it is.

Sure I still struggle sometimes, I think that's normal. Everyone has bad days, but that doesn't have to define the way you choose to approach life and even relationships. I will be sharing more of my story with you later on.

I know there are other blogs out there with a similar theme, but most of them that I know of are done by women who have already found their husband. I think that sometimes they don't always remember what its like to be single, the struggles, the doubts, the emotions.

I know that personally, I have a hard time hearing what some married women have to say. Even if it is good advice. I think that many married women think that if it happened for them, if they found the man they were supposed to marry, then that will happen for everyone else one day also.

In reality, I have had to come to terms with the fact that I may never find a man to marry. Slowly, I am becoming okay with that. I am just trying to do whatever the Lord has called me to do. I am taking this time while I am unattached to seek Him in all things. I know that He will never leave me or forsake me.